Welcome to Christians & BDSM

This web site has been created to help people explore the possibility that the lifestyle known as D/s (Dominance and submission) and the sexual activities called BDSM (Bondage and Discipline/Dominance and Submission/Sadomasochism) may be compatible with a Christian lifestyle, when practiced consensually within the bonds of marriage.


You may not agree with our lifestyle. We believe this is because you may have certain preconceptions about D/s or BDSM. We feel that these preconceptions are tainted by the secular media and entertainment industry, especially concerning D/s. We believe that, if practiced within a Biblical context, the D/s relationship is closer to the Biblical model for marriage than the one taught by most churches today. Understand that we base our beliefs solely on our understanding of the Bible and not on the opinions of individuals or on societal norms.

We believe you have a right to disagree with us. We welcome your questions or comments. You may e-mail us. However, we strongly believe that all people have the right to enjoy the blessings of religious freedom without being subject to personal attacks. If you are going to state that our beliefs are wrong, do so in a respectful manner, take on our beliefs and not us personally, and provide Scripture references to back up your beliefs.

Sir Gardener

Please note that this site is new and still under construction. We will be adding many features and articles in the near future. Please bookmark this web site and come back often to see what's new!



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